Anonymous asked: Hi Odessa Buggs! Are you in love with the guy, you say is your best friend? You say, in your tweets, you wouldn't date him, but it seems like the guys you are interested in seems to resemble him in some way. (I'm speaking about pictures you put on your blog here of guys you like). You seem to be highly intelligent, talented, building your business, a mom, and absolutely stunningly beautiful. Why haven't you and your friend tried a relationship, or have you?

I love him to death not in the “in love” kinda way. We’ve been friends for years. You know how you have those friends that would make perfect boyfriends/girlfriends but you’re REALLY good friends and you don’t know if you ever wanna mess up that relationship because you know once you go there it will NEVER be the same…It’s like that. We talk to each other about EVERYTHING. We hang out, sleep over each others houses (nothing physical involved of course) But I am not really in a place to be in a relationship right now and from the conversations me and him have about  my “situation” we BOTH know this. So where there may be an attraction on both ends however now would def not be the time to act on it “IF” we ever did decide to.